Are you struggling with your self esteem in romantic relationships?

Are you finding yourself going back to that toxic relationship even when you know you shouldn’t?

Are you overgiving in relationships and finding yourself resentful and feeling too needy?

Are you shut down and scared of love?

All love types are not the end all be all. Instead, they give a glimpse into some common categories that we can fall into in our love style based of how we learned about love in our childhood and in our life.

The wonderful and most empowered thing about being honest with ourselves and how we actually feel and act in relationships and get real about our CRAY is that then we can break free from denial, accept what we are doing. It s when we do this that we get to the root of the wound that needs some loving instead of acting from the wound and letting the wound lead your love life. This is when we can actually begin the process of deep healing to have healthier relationship with yourself and others. So let’s get started!

The Love Archetype® quiz will give you a peak into how you “relationship.” What is your love style? It will help you discover where you fall in the Love Archetype spectrum. It will include the characteristics of that Love Archetype is about, how you relate to others in romantic love, and suggestions on how to heal or bring balance to this Love Archetype.

You will see 21 questions. Please select the statement that best suits you. Some may be tricky to choose in the situation, but please choose the answer that BEST suits you most of the time. Allow 10 to 15 minutes to complete the profile. Take it when you are relaxed, calm, and centered. Do your best to be calm and don’t overthink it as you select your answers.

After the quiz is done, provide your contact information below to receive your love archetype. Then you will receive a link via email to download your personal profile results. This profile is for ages 18 and older.

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The Love Archetype® quiz will help you to discover where you fall in the Love Archetype spectrum. Take the quiz now!

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Question 1 of 22

You are typically attracted to the "bad boy".

1. Yes
2. No
Question 2 of 22

Which of the following statements is more true for you?

1. It is easy for me to open up to love and intimacy.
2. It is difficult for me to open up to love and intimacy.
Question 3 of 22

It is more important for me to:

1. Feel safe and secure in romantic relationships.
2. Feel passion and sexuality in romantic relationships.
Question 4 of 22

Have you been in a toxic relationship before?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 5 of 22

Are you currently in a toxic relationship?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 6 of 22

Do you feel you are lovable?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 7 of 22

Do you consider yourself...

1. overtly sexual
2. sexually inhibited (i.e. sexually shut down)
Question 8 of 22

Which provides more comfort to your gut?

1. Living for the rest of your life with the partner of your dreams.
2. Being single and free dating multiple people for the rest of your life.
Question 9 of 22

Have you been betrayed by a love partner before?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 10 of 22

Which is your bigger fear when it comes to love?

1. Starting to date again and opening up.
2. Believing that true love will come to you and stick around.
Question 11 of 22

Which of the following statements is most true for you?

1. I am secure when it comes to love.
2. I am shut down when it comes to love.
3. I am ambivalent when it comes to love.
Question 12 of 22

Do you often feel insecure if you do not get a text back immediately from a potential love interest?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 13 of 22

Is it difficult for you to express your feelings without rage or violence?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 14 of 22

Is non violent communication effortless for you?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 15 of 22

Do you feel the sexual gender of your preference is out to get you/use you?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 16 of 22

Do you resort to hurting your romantic partner’s feelings by lashing out when you are feeling unloved/unseen/unwanted?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 17 of 22

Do you find yourself wanting the unavailable person and then rejecting the available person?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 18 of 22

Which would you describe yourself as?

1. Emotionally Available.
2. Emotionally Guarded.
Question 19 of 22

Which would you describe yourself as?

1. Emotionally Needy.
2. Emotionally Self-Dependent.
Question 20 of 22

Do you find it easy to love others?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 21 of 22

Do you find it easy to be loved by others?

1. Yes
2. No
Question 22 of 22

Is your desire to find true love?

1. Yes
2. No
3. Unsure

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